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Psychology of Relationships

Relationships are important.

Time is short.

Get it right.

Selected Articles

Does your relationship have a future? Is your partner Hall of Fame material?

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Being someone’s BFF is a big deal – with your BFF as your romantic partner, you get the best of both worlds ...

**Read over a quarter million times

Flirting comes in many forms, but what's the best approach? 

Anyone in a relationship knows how easy it is for that “external” stress to find its way into their romantic relationship...

Ah, the honeymoon stage—that magical time when your partner is still perfect and you are very much in love...

Is he or she the one? You know… the one to introduce to my parents, the one to move in with, the one to start a family with, the one to marry?  

**Read over 1 million times

The truth, however, is that breakups aren’t always as bad as we predict they will be...

“Will you be my Valentine?” is the wrong question. Instead, ask yourself “Should you be my Valentine?”

The next time you see a couple together, take a few minutes to observe how the partners interact with each other...

A set of questions to help improve self-knowledge.


Gary W. Lewandowski Jr. Ph.D.


Department of Psychology

Monmouth University

West Long Branch, NJ 07764

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