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Whatever you're trying to figure out
about relationships, start here.

25 years of relationship science and expertise. Pick your format.

The Research, Your Way

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Most relationship books give you opinions. These give you science.

Stronger Than You Think and The Science of Relationships translate decades of research into something you can read in an afternoon and use for a lifetime.  Two accessible trade books, five university textbooks.

All of it built on the same foundation: evidence that actually helps.

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The Love Strategies podcast helps successful women attract high-character men, date with strategy, and improve their relationships. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a new relationship, we provide raw insights found nowhere else - backed by science, psychology, and personal experiences.

Coming Soon

The Relationships Course You Never Got in School

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The Psychology of Relationships is the relationships course you never got in high school, delivered free, straight to your inbox.

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Each issue brings research-backed insight on dating, love, and connection, written conversationally and built for real life. Lots of great insights, a little weird humor, and strategies you can actually use. The science is always there, you just won't notice it. (Think broccoli hidden in brownies.)

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Start with Relationships 101, a 14-week "greatest hits" of foundational topics on dating, love, and relationships. Each lesson stands on its own, but together they build something genuinely useful. Other courses, compelling stand alone topics, actionable strategies, and helpful toolkits make up the rest of the library.

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Check it out. Your relationships will thank you.

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TEDx Talk

TEDx: Break-Ups Don't Have to Leave You Broken  

"Great relationships seldom fail. Bad ones do, as they should."

Contact

Gary W. Lewandowski Jr. Ph.D.

Professor

Department of Psychology

Monmouth University

West Long Branch, NJ 07764

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