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​From the The Psychology of Relationships 101 Curriculum...
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The Flirting Formula: Science-Backed Strategies for Connection
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The Science of Communication: What Builds Connection and What Breaks It
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The Truth about Attachment: The Science of Secure Connection
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The Erosion of Intimacy: Dealing with the Dark Side of Relationships
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The Science of Love: From Instant Chemistry to Lasting Connection
Follow your heart, but take some
science and strategy with you.
ABOUT
Gary W. Lewandowski Jr. is a relationship scientist who uses research to help people navigate the ups and downs of real relationships. A first-generation college student, psychology professor, husband, and girl dad, he’s known for making science feel practical, relatable, and useful.
Through his book Stronger Than You Think, TEDx talk, Psychology Today column, Psychology of Relationships Substack, and the Love Strategies Podcast, Gary’s work has reached more than 12 million people. Along the way, he’s helped them see their relationships, and themselves, more clearly, showing that good science doesn’t have to sound academic to be powerful.

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